7 signs a woman is in love with you but wants you to make the first move

Navigating the language of love can be quite similar to deciphering a secret code. Especially when the woman of your dreams subtly signals she’s into you but, for some reason, wants you to make the first move.

Now, you might wonder, “Why can’t she just tell me directly?” Well, love has always been a dance of signals and signs, and learning to read them is part of the fun.

As the founder of Love Connection blog and with years of experience in decoding these romantic cues, I’m here to guide you. This article will share seven signs that scream she’s head over heels for you and is patiently waiting for you to take the lead.

Let’s get straight to those signs.

1) She’s noticeably more comfortable around you

In the realm of romance, comfort is key. It’s the unspoken language that indicates a deep level of trust and affection.

Notice how she relaxes when she’s with you. It could be that she lets her guard down, shows her quirky side, or even shares personal stories that she doesn’t tell just anyone.

This comfort might be subtle, but it’s a vital sign that she’s got some serious feelings for you. However, if she’s not initiating the next move, it could mean she’s waiting for you to step up.

Now, you might think, “Isn’t comfort just a sign of friendship?” True, but coupled with other signs on this list, it could indicate something more profound.

So keep an eye out for this sign. But remember, it’s just the first piece of the puzzle in this complex dance of love.

2) She’s not always available

Sounds contradictory, right? But stick with me on this.

If she’s always ready to hang out at a moment’s notice, it might seem like she’s totally into you. But consider this: a woman who’s in love and wants you to make the first move will often create a bit of distance.

Why? Well, it’s not about playing hard to get. Rather, it’s about ensuring she doesn’t come across as too eager or desperate. It’s her way of maintaining her self-respect while subtly nudging you to pursue her.

So, if she occasionally declines your invitations or takes a while to respond to your messages, don’t be disheartened. Instead, see it as a sign that she’s interested but wants you to show more initiative.

Counterintuitive as it may seem, this is a common tactic in the dance of love. Don’t let it throw you off. Instead, use it as motivation to up your game.

3) She initiates deep, meaningful conversations

A woman in love is not just interested in casual chit-chat. She wants to understand you at a deeper level. She’s interested in your dreams, your fears, your past, and your future.

If she’s initiating such conversations, it’s a clear sign that she’s emotionally invested and wants to build a strong connection with you. However, her reluctance to make the first romantic move might be because she’s seeking an emotional reciprocation from your end first.

Now, in my book – Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I talk about the importance of emotional reciprocation and how it can build or break a relationship.

So don’t shy away from these meaningful conversations. Dive deep and reciprocate with genuine interest. It’s a crucial step in making that first move she might be waiting for.

4) She subtly mirrors your actions

There’s an old saying, “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.” This holds true in the world of love as well. If you notice her subtly mirroring your actions or habits, that’s a strong sign she’s into you.

This mirroring could be anything – matching your speech patterns, adopting some of your mannerisms, or even ordering the same food as you. It’s a subconscious way for her to feel a deeper connection with you.

As someone who has spent years studying romantic cues, I can tell you this: Mirroring is a powerful sign of attraction. But it can be so subtle that it’s easy to miss unless you’re paying attention.

Remember what Albert Einstein once said, “The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing.” In love, maintaining that curiosity about the other person and noticing these small details can make all the difference.

5) She remembers the little things

In my years of decoding love signs, one thing that always stands out is this: a woman in love will remember the little things about you. The off-hand comment you made about your favorite childhood memory, your love for a particular book, or even your coffee preference – she’ll remember them all.

This is because when she’s in love, you’re not just a part of her thoughts; you’re a part of her. Every small detail about you matters to her, and she treasures them.

However, if she’s waiting for you to make the first move, she might not openly express this. Instead, she’ll use these details in conversations or gestures, subtly showing that she’s been paying attention.

This kind of attention to detail requires a genuine affection and emotional investment. So if she remembers the little things about you, take it as a sign that she feels deeply for you and is waiting for your move.

6) She’s more touchy-feely with you

Physical touch is a powerful language of love. If she’s more touchy-feely with you than with others, it’s a clear sign of her affection.

This doesn’t necessarily mean grand gestures like hugs or kisses. It could be as subtle as a pat on your shoulder, a playful punch, or her hand brushing against yours. These are ways she’s trying to establish a physical connection without overtly crossing the line.

As Audrey Hepburn once said, “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” If she’s finding ways to hold onto you, even subtly, it’s a sign she’s ready for more but wants you to initiate it.

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7) She gets nervous when it’s just the two of you

Here’s a raw, honest truth: love makes us vulnerable, and vulnerability can make us nervous. If she seems a bit more jittery or self-conscious when it’s just the two of you, it could be because her feelings for you are intense.

She might fidget, stutter, or blush more than usual. You might even catch her stealing glances at you when she thinks you’re not looking. It’s like being back in high school, right?

But here’s the thing: these nerves are just a sign of how much she cares. And if she’s showing them, yet not making a move, it’s likely because she wants you to take that step.

Take note of her nerves. They might be the most raw and honest sign that she’s deeply in love with you and waiting for you to make the first move.

A final insight

Understanding the subtle signs of a woman’s affection is just half the battle. The other half is having the courage to make the first move. It’s about acknowledging the vulnerability that comes with expressing your feelings and taking that leap of faith.

This journey of love is seldom a smooth one. It’s filled with uncertainties, fears, and moments of self-doubt. But remember what Alfred Lord Tennyson once said, “Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”

Embrace these challenges. They not only make the journey more enriching but also intensify the joy when you finally connect with your beloved.

To delve deeper into this subject, I strongly recommend watching this insightful video by Justin Brown. He explores the complexities of finding a life partner, reflecting on his lessons learned after a failed date.

From understanding the importance of shared values to the significance of growth and mutual support in a relationship, his insights can help you navigate this journey.

Love is indeed a beautiful dance of signals and signs. With these insights in hand, I hope you can confidently step onto this dance floor and make that first move she’s been waiting for.